What Is Your Apology Language?

How do you usually apologize when you realize you've made a mistake?

• I promise to change my behavior and not repeat the mistake.

• I admit my fault and take full responsibility.

• I try to make it up to the person with a meaningful gesture.

• None of these

• I listen to their feelings and offer support and understanding.

• I express sincere regret and ask for forgiveness.

What's your primary motivation for apologizing when you've wronged someone?

• To show that I'm committed to repairing the damage and restoring trust.

• To take responsibility for my actions and make things right.

• To seek forgiveness and reconcile with the other person.

• None of these

• To express genuine remorse and seek forgiveness.

• To demonstrate my willingness to change and grow from the experience.

• "I take full responsibility for what happened and I'm sorry."

• "I understand why you're upset. What can I do to make things right?"

• "I understand how my actions hurt you, and I'm here to support you."

• "Can you possibly forgive me?"

• "I'm genuinely sorry for the pain I've caused, and I'm committed to making changes."

• None of these

How do you handle criticism?

• None of these

• I reflect on it and consider different perspectives.

• I take it seriously and make necessary changes.

• I appreciate constructive criticism as a means to better myself.

• I use it as an opportunity for self-improvement and growth.

• I listen attentively and try to learn from it.

You forgot your anniversary and your partner is upset. What's your immediate response?

• Admit your mistake and take responsibility for forgetting

• None of these

• Listen to their feelings and offer emotional support

• Express heartfelt regret and ask for forgiveness

• Promise to be more attentive and remember important dates

• Apologize sincerely and plan a special celebration to make it up

• "I take full responsibility for my actions."

• "I'm committed to changing my behavior and not repeating the same mistake."

• None of these

• "I'm truly sorry for what I've done."

• "I want to make it right and do whatever it takes to fix this."

How important is it for you to receive an apology when someone has wronged you?

• Quite important. I expect them to make amends.

• Very important. I need acknowledgment and closure.

• Essential. I want them to take responsibility for their actions.

• Not important at all. Apologies are not necessary to me.

• Somewhat important. I appreciate empathy and understanding.

• Important. I need to see genuine efforts to change.

What role does forgiveness play in your relationships?

• It's a sign of maturity and strength.

• It's necessary for rebuilding trust and moving forward.

• It's essential for healing and reconciliation.

• It's a fundamental aspect of resolving conflicts and maintaining harmony.

• None of these

• It's a way to foster growth and deepen connections.

• "I ask for your forgiveness and hope we can move forward together."

• None of these

• "I promise to learn from this and do better in the future."

• "I value your feelings, and I'll do my best to make amends."

• "I know I messed up, and I'm willing to face the consequences."

Which statement resonates with you the most when it comes to forgiveness?

• Forgiveness is the key to inner peace and freedom.

• Forgiveness is a choice that leads to healing and empowerment.

• Forgiveness doesn't excuse their behavior; it prevents their behavior from destroying your heart.

• None of these

• Forgiveness means letting go of the past and embracing the future.

• Forgiveness is a gift you give yourself.

Which statement resonates with you the most?

• Forgive and forget.

• None of these

• It's the thought that counts.

• Actions speak louder than words.

• Two wrongs don't make a right.

• Honesty is the best policy.

Which of the following can totally ruin an apology for you?

• When there are no actions to back up the words of apology.

• When the apology feels insincere or forced.

• None of these

• When the person blames you or someone else at the same time.

• When there's no genuine commitment to change behavior.

• When the apology lacks empathy and understanding.

• Are truly sorry for what they've done.

• Are committed to changing their behavior in the future.

• None of these

• Want to make it up to me with actions, not just words.

• Acknowledge their mistake and take responsibility.

• Directly ask for my forgiveness.

How do you usually feel after receiving a heartfelt apology?

• None of these

• Encouraged and hopeful for positive change

• Appreciated and valued

• Respected and acknowledged

• Forgiving and ready to move forward

• Validated and understood

What's the most important aspect of an apology for you?

• Showing empathy and understanding towards the hurt party

• Making tangible efforts to make amends

• Expressing sincere remorse and regret

• Taking full responsibility for one's actions

• None of these

• Demonstrating a genuine commitment to change

You realize you've hurt your friend's feelings. What's your immediate reaction?

• Listen attentively to their feelings and offer support

• Take responsibility and admit fault

• Promise to change your behavior in the future

• Offer to make it up to them with a thoughtful gesture

• Apologize profusely and express sincere regret

• None of these