How High Are Your Standards?

What's more important to you - having a type you're physically attracted to or having a partner with a great personality?

• Personality is most important, but physical attraction still matters somewhat.

• Personality is everything - looks are totally irrelevant.

• Definitely the physical type - I need that spark of attraction.

How much of a priority is it for your partner to make around the same income level as you?

• I'd prefer it, but I'm willing to be a bit flexible if everything else is right.

• Income level doesn't matter at all to me.

• A moderate difference is okay, but our incomes shouldn't be worlds apart.

• It's an absolute must - our lifestyles and financial priorities need to align.

You meet someone you're instantly attracted to, but then you find out they have a habit or quirk that really bugs you. How much would that habit or quirk impact your interest in them?

• It would bother me, but I could potentially look past it if everything else was great.

• It would be an absolute deal-breaker.

• I wouldn't care at all - everyone has little quirks.

You've been dating someone for a few months, and you realize one of their core values or beliefs clashes with your own. What do you do?

• Try to work through it and see if you can find some common ground.

• It's not a big deal - you don't need to have everything in common.

• Discuss it openly to see if the difference is something you can both accept and respect.

• Break things off immediately - that's too big of a difference to overcome.

You're on a first date, and your date shows up wearing something you find completely unappealing. What do you do?

• Give them a chance and see if their personality makes up for it.

• Politely excuse yourself and end the date early.

• You make a mental note about their style, but remain open-minded for now.

• Their outfit choice is a bit of a turn-off, but you're willing to look past it if you click otherwise.

• It's just clothes - you don't really care what they wear.

Your friend sets you up on a blind date. What's the first thing you want to know about your potential match?

• Their job and income level.

• Just their name is fine - you like to go in with an open mind.

• Their age and general background.

• If they have any deal-breaker habits or qualities I should know about upfront.

• Their interests, values and personality traits to gauge compatibility.

You meet someone who ticks all the boxes - they're your exact type physically, have an amazing personality, great values, etc. But then you find out they're quite a bit younger/older than your preferred age range. What do you do?

• Move on - the age difference is just too much for me.

• Give it a try - age is just a number if you really vibe.

• The age gap doesn't bother me at all if we click.

• It would make me hesitant, but I'm open to discussion about long-term implications.

• I could make a small exception if the connection is amazing, but a large age gap is too much.

What's more important to you - sharing the same cultural background/ethnicity as your partner or finding someone you're truly compatible with?

• Ethnic background is a minor consideration - compatibility is much more important.

• Having a partner from my same culture is an extremely high priority.

• I strongly prefer shared cultural roots, but could make an exception for an amazing connection.

• Cultural background doesn't matter at all to me.

• Same background would be ideal, but it's not an absolute requirement.

You match with someone on a dating app who seems great, but they live quite far away. How far is too far for you?

• I could do an hour's drive if we really clicked.

• I'd consider up to a 30-minute drive, but no farther.

• Distance doesn't matter - I'm willing to make it work if the connection is right.

• Anything more than a 15-minute drive is too far for me.

Your new partner has an annoying habit of constantly cracking their knuckles. How much of a deal-breaker is this for you?

• I absolutely cannot stand that habit - it's a total deal-breaker.

• Mildly annoying, but not a big issue in the grand scheme of things.

• It would really bother me, but I could potentially look past it.

• I wouldn't even notice or care about a little habit like that.

How important is it for your partner's political views to align with your own?

• I need us to at least be in the same general vicinity politically.

• Political views don't matter at all to me in a partner.

• We must have virtually identical political beliefs - no exceptions.

• Some overlap is ideal, but different views could make for great discussions.

You meet someone who initially seems perfect for you. But then you find out they have a controversial opinion or lifestyle choice you fundamentally disagree with. What do you do?

• It doesn't bother me at all - different strokes for different folks.

• As long as it's not directly harming anyone, I can look past it.

• It would give me serious pause, but I'm willing to hear them out first.

• I cut off contact immediately - that's an absolute deal-breaker for me.

How high of a priority is having a partner who shares your religious beliefs and level of observance?

• It's an absolute requirement - we must be of the same faith and equally devout.

• Having some spiritual overlap is nice, but I don't need an exact religious match.

• Religion and spirituality aren't important factors for me in a partner.

• While I'd prefer someone of the same religion, differing levels of observance could work.

Your new partner is great in almost every way, but they have an addiction issue (smoking, alcohol, etc.) that concerns you. How much of a red flag is this?

• I'd support them getting help, but it wouldn't be a relationship-ender necessarily.

• It's not ideal, but I don't judge - we all have our vices.

• It's a significant issue that would need to be addressed immediately.

• Any kind of addiction is an absolute deal-breaker for me - no exceptions.

Your new partner admits they are still not over their ex and have lingering feelings for them. How much of an issue is this for you?

• It doesn't bother me - we all have pasts to work through.

• I cannot be with someone who has feelings for an ex - it's over immediately.

• I can be patient and supportive as long as they are committed to us.

• It's a yellow flag - I'd need a solid plan for how they'll move on.

You find out your new partner has a past criminal record involving a non-violent offense. How much does their past matter to you?

• It would depend on the specific offense, but I'd be very hesitant.

• Any kind of criminal record is an absolute no-go for me.

• Everyone has a past - their criminal record doesn't bother me.

• As long as it wasn't violent and they've moved on, I can look past it.

Your new partner wants to adopt a pet, but you're severely allergic to that type of animal. How willing are you to compromise?

• It would be extremely difficult for me, but I may consider safe options.

• Not a chance - I couldn't be with someone who insists on having a pet I'm allergic to.

• I'd prefer not to have that pet, but I'm open to exploring hypoallergenic options.

• My allergies aren't a big deal - I'm happy to let them have whatever pet they want.

Almost there! Your partner's dream is to eventually quit their job and start their own business, but it's a very risky venture. How much does this factor into your compatibility?

• More power to them - I fully encourage that kind of entrepreneurial spirit!

• I respect their dream and would support them as long as we plan accordingly.

• I'd need to see a very solid business plan before I could get on board.

• That level of risk and instability is simply not acceptable to me.

Your new partner has very different tastes and interests from you in areas like music, movies, hobbies etc. How much does that impact your compatibility?

• Different interests keep things interesting! We can explore each other's worlds.

• Shared interests aren't important at all - having separate hobbies is healthy.

• It's a total deal-breaker - we need to have shared interests and pastimes.

• It would concern me a bit, but I'm willing to introduce each other to new things.

And last but not least, you find out your new partner has a habit or personality trait that really clashes with your own (e.g. They're very frugal and you're a spendthrift). How much of an issue is this?

• Any kind of major lifestyle incompatibility is an absolute deal-breaker.

• Clashing personality traits and habits don't really bother me.

• Differences like that can be worked through with communication and compromise.

• It depends on how extreme the difference is, but it gives me pause.