The Light Triad Test – Are You a Force of Good?

When you see someone in distress, how do you typically react?

• I assess the situation and then decide if I can be of any assistance.

• I usually keep to myself, as I'm not good at handling such situations.

• I feel concerned but unsure how to help.

• I immediately try to comfort them and offer help.

• I offer some kind words or advice.

How do you handle conflicts with others?

• I try to understand their perspective and find a middle ground.

• I usually give in to avoid prolonging the conflict.

• I take time to reflect on the issue before responding.

• I avoid confrontation and rarely express my true feelings.

• I stand my ground but am open to forgiving and moving on.

If you won a large sum of money, what would you do with it?

• I'm not sure what I would do.

• Save most of it for future needs and maybe donate a little.

• Invest in personal projects and share with family.

• Spend it on experiences and gifts for friends and family.

• Donate a significant portion to charity.

What motivates you to help others?

• I rarely feel a strong motivation to help others.

• I help others when I can, but I often prioritize my needs.

• The feeling of happiness and fulfillment it brings.

• Knowing that I can make a difference in someone's life.

• It's the right thing to do, and everyone should help each other.

How do you approach personal growth and self-improvement?

• I focus on helping others, which in turn helps me grow.

• I reflect on my mistakes and try to learn from them.

• I'm open to growth but often unsure where to start.

• I actively seek out new experiences and challenges.

• I don't spend much time thinking about personal growth.

How do you handle stressful situations?

• By staying calm and thinking of solutions.

• I get anxious and sometimes avoid dealing with it.

• I tend to shut down and wait for the stress to pass.

• I seek support from friends or family.

• I focus on the bigger picture and what I can learn.

How do you feel about forgiveness?

• I struggle with forgiveness and tend to hold grudges.

• I forgive but I don't forget.

• Forgiveness depends on the situation and person involved.

• I find it hard to forgive when deeply hurt.

• It's essential for healing and moving forward.

What role does generosity play in your life?

• It's a core value that I practice regularly.

• I believe in balanced generosity, giving and taking equally.

• I rarely think about being generous.

• I'm generous when I can be, especially with those close to me.

• I try to be generous, but I have limited resources.

What does success mean to you?

• Achieving personal goals and self-improvement.

• I'm still figuring out what success means to me.

• Making a positive impact on the lives of others.

• Success isn't a major focus for me.

• A balance of personal happiness and helping others.

How do you view challenges and obstacles in life?

• I prefer to avoid challenges whenever possible.

• I try to help others through their challenges.

• With caution, but I know they're necessary for growth.

• As opportunities to learn and grow stronger.

• I find them daunting and sometimes overwhelming.

What is your approach to learning new things?

• I'm always curious and enjoy the process of learning.

• I don't actively seek out new learning opportunities.

• I seek knowledge to balance my personal and professional life.

• I'm open to learning but sometimes lack motivation.

• I learn things that help me make a positive impact on others.

How do you prioritize your time and resources?

• I balance my needs with the needs of others.

• I often prioritize others over myself.

• I mostly focus on my own needs and interests.

• I focus on personal growth and helping others when I can.

• I'm still figuring out how to best manage my time.

What role do emotions play in your decision-making?

• I'm learning to understand and use my emotions in decisions.

• I observe my emotions but don't let them control me.

• I rely heavily on my emotions to guide me.

• I don't often consider my emotions in decision-making.

• I balance emotion with logic and reason.

How do you approach teamwork and collaboration?

• I'm still learning how to work effectively in a team.

• I prefer working independently rather than in a team.

• I contribute thoughtfully and encourage others to share their ideas.

• I focus on supporting my teammates and ensuring everyone is heard.

• I enjoy leading and guiding the team towards our goals.

How do you react to criticism or negative feedback?

• I often get defensive or upset.

• I try to understand the perspective behind it and respond empathetically.

• I find it difficult but am trying to be more receptive.

• I take it as an opportunity to learn and improve.

• I balance accepting feedback with maintaining my own perspective.

What does 'being a good friend' mean to you?

• Enjoying each other's company without many expectations.

• Maintaining a balanced and supportive relationship.

• Being there for them in times of need and showing empathy.

• Helping them grow and encouraging their aspirations.

• I'm still learning what it means to be a good friend.

How do you deal with personal setbacks or failures?

• I'm learning to handle setbacks but sometimes struggle.

• I reflect on what went wrong and how I can improve.

• I view them as learning opportunities and bounce back stronger.

• I seek support from friends or family to cope with setbacks.

• I find setbacks demotivating and challenging to overcome.

How do you approach helping strangers in need?

• I rarely intervene in situations involving strangers.

• I assess the situation before deciding to help.

• I offer assistance without hesitation if I can.

• I consider helping but might hesitate due to uncertainty.

• I'm cautious and avoid getting involved.

What role does gratitude play in your life?

• I actively practice gratitude and appreciate life's blessings.

• I acknowledge gratitude but find it hard to express.

• I understand the importance of gratitude but struggle to practice it.

• I rarely think about or express gratitude.

• I express gratitude regularly to those around me.

How do you handle situations where your values are challenged?

• I struggle to handle such situations and may feel conflicted.

• I avoid confrontations about values whenever possible.

• I'm firm in my values but may not engage in discussions about them.

• I defend my values firmly but respectfully.

• I try to understand differing viewpoints and find common ground.

We're coming to a close! How do you handle praise or recognition for your accomplishments?

• I'm uncomfortable with praise and tend to downplay my achievements.

• I appreciate recognition but don’t seek it actively.

• I enjoy recognition and seek it for my accomplishments.

• I feel grateful and acknowledge those who supported me.

• I rarely receive recognition for my accomplishments.

And last but not least, how important is self-reflection in your life?

• I find moments for self-reflection to improve myself.

• I'm trying to incorporate more self-reflection into my routine.

• I rarely spend time reflecting on myself and my actions.

• It's a regular practice for me to understand myself better.

• I reflect on my actions and their impact on others.