How Petty Are You?

Are you someone who holds grudges?

• I never ever hold grudges.

• I only hold grudges for unforgivable errors.

• I hold grudges, but I let go of them easily.

• I still hate anyone who has ever done anything wrong to me.

When you and a loved one have an argument, what do you do?

• Ignore them.

• Try to fix the problem immediately.

• Wait for an apology, after which you'd apologize.

• Suggest you both take time off, then reach out to them after.

How do you text back someone you don't like that you've acknowledged their message?

• "K"

• I don't like them, so I'm not gonna reply.

• "Okay"

• "Got it!"

Your friend tells you a false negative rumor that they've heard about you. What would you do?

• I'd find out who said it and confront them.

• I'd ask my friend to stop spreading the rumor and to pass the message to who she heard the rumor from.

• I'd set the rumor straight.

• I'd brush it off.

You find out who started the rumor. What will you do?

• I'll spread another rumor about him.

• I'll give him the cold shoulder.

• I'll confront him and ask him to stop.

• I'll forget about the issue and treat them normally.

In a text argument, do you ever bring up old messages as evidence?

• Yes, I make sure he knows what he or I have said.

• I refer to them but I don't mention it.

• No, I don't think that's necessary.

How many people have you blocked on social media?

• A few, but they're people who've done me wrong.

• I don't think I've blocked anyone on purpose.

• Too many to count!

• Some, mostly spam accounts.

Do you get annoyed when people read your messages but don't reply right away?

• Nope, they're probably busy.

• Yes, so I'll do the same to them.

• Kind of, but as long as they reply me, I'll be okay.

• Yes, it really annoys me.

Do you send a follow-up text when they don't reply?

• Yes, only if it's important.

• Yes, but only if they haven't replied for a couple of days.

• No, I would never.

• No, and I'll ignore them if they reply.

You see someone you don't like trip and fall down. You would:

• Laugh.

• Call for help.

• Help them up.

• Walk away without doing anything.

How often do you say "I just think it's funny how" at the start of a sentence expressing your displeasure?

• Never!

• Sometimes

• Rarely

• All the time!

Do you tend to speak or write about someone indirectly, with the intended person possibly hearing or seeing it?

• All the time!

• Never!

• Rarely

• Sometimes

How often do you have to get in the last word?

• Rarely

• All the time!

• Sometimes

• Never

You and your friend have two slices of pizza left, but one is obviously bigger than the other. You:

• Give the bigger one to him and take the smaller one.

• Give the smaller one to him and take the bigger one.

• Explain the situation and come to a decision together.

• Ask if you could have the bigger one.

When do you think an argument ends?

• When we come to an equal compromise.

• When I haven't made a compromise as huge as the other person.

• When I get my way.